I don’t see how chicks are comfortable with playing the “side chick” role. I’ve seen them fall victim to it on too many occasions..and still have that “Well it’s okay, I can change him” mindstate. WRONG. Realize that you probably can’t and probably won’t change him. Keep thinking like that, and you’ve already lost. If the nigga has been a renowned player since middle school.. What makes you think putting on a sad face is going to make dude go “Aw, you’re right. You’re definitely the one for me.”